Readers’ Questions: January 2021
In this post, I will answer some of the questions that you guys submitted. Some of the questions that we’ve received were similar, so I only answered one of them, to avoid repeating the same answer twice in the same post. Remember you can always reach out to us through this form. You can also find previous Q&A’s on that same link.
DEEPSHIKHA: I wanted to know , if you had several events or memories related to a particular area of life, ex- relationships/money, that you want to revise, what would be the most effective way?
If it’s a very specific thing that keeps coming up in my thoughts, I would revise that specific event but if you want to revise more events just in general, I think that going with a general affirmation such as, “Everything was always perfect between us” would work just fine. I would enter state akin to sleep and either revise the specific situation or repeat the affirmation until I feel the relief.
AMARA: How to avoid stalking your SP’s social media and what they do on it (e.g. liking posts of other girls etc)? Also, how to avoid self sabotage?
First of all, I love your name, Amara!
When it comes to self sabotage, I think this is only a matter of habits that we’ve built. I talked about this when I first started this blog: we are creatures of habit. We are used to judging things by their appearances and when we start using the Law of Assumption, we have to stop doing that and trust our imagination over the appearances.
In your specific case, you are probably checking out his social media out of the habit at this point. However, ask yourself this question: once you catch the feeling of being with your SP, do you worry about him liking other girls’ pictures? You may see it happening but you won’t judge it the same way – you will probably think something along the lines of, “Oh, it doesn’t matter, this is just a friend of his.” Now, don’t get me wrong, this isn’t about “acting as if” and you don’t have to “act as if” at all. But once the feeling of the wish fulfilled becomes normal to you and you have mentally shifted into that state, you will not feel the need to check on his social media because you will no longer be thinking from the state of lack. Stalking is coming from that place.
M: What I want to ask about is how do we completely drop the old story and remain only in the new one story where we are happily married?
I think that in cases when it’s taking us a long time to get something, the best thing would be to go back to the basics: do SATS consistently, making sure that you fall asleep in the feeling of the wish fulfilled or, if you cannot do it before sleep, then at least make sure that you enter state akin to sleep and get into the scene as best as you can any time during the day, feel that it’s yours, in that moment. Repeat the scene until you feel the relief.
Drop the worries about your thoughts for a while. The reason I recommend focusing only on the basics, on this one technique, is to take the pressure off of you, since you mentioned in your email that you are already doing a couple of different techniques. Remember that the entire point of any technique is to impress the subconscious and we impress the subconscious through the medium of feeling.
IVAAN: Can I change someone’s past entirely?
Yes, I believe that you can. I believe that you can align with a different parallel reality in which the person’s experiences from the past are different.
A: I’m grappling between taking action that could be potentially life saving but will also feed this story more or ignoring it and seeing him as healthy and well. Can I do a combination of both or is that serving two masters? What would you suggest?
I suggest you take the action. Knowing about the Law doesn’t mean that we have to stop acting in the 3D reality. Knowing the Law doesn’t mean that all we do the entire day is lay in bed and meditate. Where’s the fun in that anyway!? We have to understand that all our actions and reactions are governed by our inner state. Knowing the Law simply means that we get to decide what the outcome of our actions will be, thanks to that knowledge.
I will let you in on a little secret I use when it comes to action. The way to tell what state you are in right now, what results your action will produce is by listening to your inner conversations, your intuition if you will. What does your intuition tell you will happen? If it says the result will be negative, then it’s a sign that you have some subconscious programming that should be changed. So, do SATS, lullaby technique, prayer, whichever you like, and change it before you do anything.
Now, just to make it clear, in most cases, taking the action belongs to the “how” and we don’t have to concern ourselves with that. For example, in a case where somebody is manifesting an SP, all that is required is that they focus on the end and the action they may take in the meantime comes naturally. However, in your case, where you know that taking the action will give you a positive result – that’s already living in the end of knowing that doing this or that is leading to the fulfillment of your wish. Thinking from the end isn’t always thinking about the wish as if it had already been fulfilled. Sometimes it comes down to a simple knowing that no matter what is going on now and no matter what happens, everything is leading to its fulfillment. So, in that case, you may not be thinking, “He is already healthy”. You will be thinking, “Once I take this action, it will be done”. This same line of thinking comes into play when we use techniques to shift our state as well: “I will do SATS, catch the feeling of the wish fulfilled and then it will come to be”. It’s the belief that a certain action – in this case, catching the feeling through SATS, as Neville teaches us – will produce a certain result but that is a topic that I may have to cover for itself because I am simplifying it for this post.
What is more important than the action itself is what state you are in when you are taking that action. State of the wish fulfilled in this case would be knowing that this action is leading you to a positive outcome and based on your email, I do feel that that is your current state. Just last month, my cat was hit by a car. Did I sit down and do SATS? No, I sat in the car and took it to the vet, knowing that this will save their life and it did. It felt natural for me to take that action. I knew that it would help it. The same applies in your situation.
Also, serving two masters is about going back and forth between the old story and the new story. You choose one and stick to it.
ANDREA: How to deal with anxiety?
Release your emotions. I understand that feeling this way may make you think that you aren’t doing things “right” but that is definitely not the case. When emotions from your old state surface, observe them and let them go. Don’t give them any extra meaning like, “This means I am failing” or, “This feeling means that I can’t manifest this”. I suggest you look at these feelings as something that has to come to the surface and be released, so that you can replace it with all the lovely things that belong to your new state.
I also want to use this post to acknowledge all the lovely emails we got! Thank you very much for reaching out to us and leaving lovely messages. We are always happy to hear that we’ve helped you out.