Why The Third Party Doesn’t Matter

Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.

Luke 23:34

The whole vast world is yourself pushed out. Nothing happens independently of you. No one moves independently of you or your wishes. If it takes a thousand men to aid you in fulfilling your wishes, they will be moved in ways they won’t understand. Maybe even in ways you won’t understand in that moment.

I wanted to remind you of that before I get into the topic I want to talk about in this post. Many of you want to manifest your specific people (back). Many of you also created a third party situation. If you are unfamiliar with The Law, you will think that your person had moved on and wants nothing to do with you. They want to spend their future with the third party.

This is where “everyone is you pushed out” concept comes in handy, to all Neville’s students. I would dare say that most of the new Neville’s students encounter it when they manifest something that can be as heart-breaking as their SP being involved with somebody else. Well… I am here to tell you why it doesn’t matter and show you why the third party shouldn’t even be given any attention.

Let’s start with “everyone is you pushed out”. This applies to literally everyone in your world. Everyone you have ever encountered, everything that has been done to you whether you deem it as right or wrong, it’s all rooted in you. Again, nothing exists independently of you.

Most common belief that creates a third party is, “I am second best”. This is something that comes up time and time again when people talk about self love. Yes, self love is nice and dandy, but often also misunderstood. Self love is not about sitting down and meditating for hours. Self love is not repeating, “I am loved” all day long. Self love is simply knowing your worth. Self love is knowing that you deserve to have your desires fulfilled and doing the work in your imagination.

Now that we got that out of the way, let’s talk about the “I am second best”. This belief is very common among people who have been rejected. But here is the thing: you weren’t rejected by another person. Your fear of rejection helped you create that. Once again, it is rooted in you.

Your subconscious mind doesn’t know the truth from the lie, and you unconsciously repeated, “My SP has the power to reject me”. Maybe you used those exact words or, more commonly, it was just a feeling. Your subconscious mind registers that as, “Oh, okay, they think their SP can reject them, let’s give them this experience”.

So now, you find yourself feeling rejected by your SP who, to make it even worse, is now involved with a third party. How do you get around that? Simple! You don’t give it any attention. I know, I know. It sounds so simple but your conscious mind probably already went down the “How do I do that, that’s impossible, it’s right in front of me” route.

Stop it. Stop it right there. If you want to control your life, you need to learn to control your mind. I find that many people believe it when their conscious mind goes down that route and then do nothing to change it. Well, that’s exactly what you should be doing if you want to change your circumstances – change the way you see things.

Yes, your conscious mind will moan and complain. Your conscious mind doesn’t like the change. It perceives the change as a danger. It is too lazy to adjust to the change. It’s your conscious mind that’s making you stay in your comfort zone and never wants you to leave that zone. It doesn’t want to adjust to new things and this is why letting go of the “old man” is so important.

But how do you do that? With a mental diet. There really is no way around it than to change your mental diet and truly accept that you are the creator of your own world.

Let’s take an example of going on an actual diet: you are working out for 2 hours every day, eating salads for breakfast, lunch and dinner but after the dinner, you eat an entire chocolate all by yourself. If you believe in the “science” of weightloss, then you know that you shouldn’t be having sugar. So why are you eating the chocolate and ruining the work you’ve done all throughout the day?

You see, that’s how the conscious mind works. You may think you are addicted to sugar and that’s why you had that chocolate. But… It’s just the old you coming out again. The one that doesn’t want a change. It doesn’t want salad, it wants chocolate because it’s used to chocolate! Just like that, your conscious mind got comfortable in your current circumstances and doesn’t want to change.

So when you find yourself thinking about the third party or even the possibility of a third party existing, stop yourself. Stop yourself in the middle of the thought about the third party if you can. Say “cancel”. Say “stop”. Say “fuck off”, whatever resonates with you. Then flip it around. Instead of thinking that your SP chose the third party and wants a future with them, change it to, “I am loved by my SP. I am in a happy relationship with my SP. I am the best choice for my SP and there is no competition.”

It may take some time. It depends on how long you’ve been living in that old state. But if you give it your best shot, you will succeed. Don’t do it for a day or two and say it doesn’t work because nothing is changing. You can’t know if anything changed. They could be breaking up as we speak, and yet, it’s none of your business because that is the “how” of this situation.

We always need to focus on our end result. So, let me ask you: does your end result include a third party? Does it include you crying your eyes out because you feel you are second best? Does it include your SP being with you AND somebody else at the same time?

I would like to think it includes you and your SP in a committed, loving, happy relationship. It’s just you and your SP. No third parties. No drama. Nobody standing in your way.

If you find yourself thinking about how they are going to break up or anything related to “their” relationship, stop yourself. You are perpetuating the same old drama in your mind. You are giving your attention to it and by giving it attention you are keeping it in your awareness. Yet, nothing exists outside of your awareness. All things are rooted in you, remember?

One last thing I want to tell you is that the third parties don’t actually exist. Third parties are just a product of our own insecurities and our own fears. This is why I quoted Jesus in the beginning of this post. Third parties don’t know what they’re doing. Heck, nobody else in our world knows what they’re doing because they are moving under our compulsion. They are responding to our beliefs about them and about ourselves.

The only person you need to forgive is yourself. You didn’t know what you were doing either. You were asleep but now you are awake and you see how you’ve created all of this drama in the world of Caesar. There is no competition unless you create it!

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